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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 28.06.2025 01:23

How does one succeed in life?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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Ask yourself:

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

At what stage in your life did you realize, "No, I can't do this any more" and walk out? Why?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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Procrastinates a lot.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Does not procrastinate.

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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

That's it for today.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

What I need from you?

Making more friends is a goal.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.